Forgive and forget..........
Was going through a friend's blog when i came across these words of his.
There are times when you want to hate someone... hate someone like hell... but then past memories with that person hold you back... and you hate it... hate the memories... and hate the circumstances that force you to hate that person...
But there are reasons for hating... and we wish that those reasons were never there... wish that everything could just get straight... as if nothing ever happened...
But that's impossible... we know it... and the battle continues in our heart... whether to hate that person or to ignore his/her deeds... its too hard... taking a side...
Life is so difficult... it has lots of challenges... but the most difficult situation is when we have to fight with ourself...
There are times when you want to hate someone... hate someone like hell... but then past memories with that person hold you back... and you hate it... hate the memories... and hate the circumstances that force you to hate that person...
But there are reasons for hating... and we wish that those reasons were never there... wish that everything could just get straight... as if nothing ever happened...
But that's impossible... we know it... and the battle continues in our heart... whether to hate that person or to ignore his/her deeds... its too hard... taking a side...
Life is so difficult... it has lots of challenges... but the most difficult situation is when we have to fight with ourself...
After reading it i was thinking its not impossible actually to forgive the person, difficult it is definitely. I believe everyone deserves a second chance and should be given. But its a matter of perspective. Everyone has his own.
Just follow your inner voice and you'll get through any difficulty, dilemma. But here applies a condition. To let your heart guide you, you first need to be honest with yourself. :-)
posted by Chitra at 10:17 AM
2 Comments:
Difficult ! yes indeed it is , but as rightly said by you earlier, it is all a matter of perspective.
But we know wounds are healed but scars are left behind.
Keep the faith!
Jeet
Do you know the significance of the scars that are left behind my friend. They are there to remind you, the lessons you have learnt in life, through out your life so that you don't let the same things happen to you again. Thats the way i see them. :-) One should try to move on cause heartbreaks are not something worth sticking to.
Take care
And thanks for being on my blog. :-)
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